One would like to believe there’s some type of comfort in death. In knowing the pain will no longer linger. Knowing tribulations have run its course. No longer wondering if what was done has been resolved or if what will be will ever blossom, ever take root. And while one would like to believe the depth of sorrow is with death, it’s actually in the life of those left behind. It begins with the realization of one’s living and breathing and engaging ‘selfness’. The constant acknowledgement of inhale-exhale is where solace ceases to exist.

Death should bring solace however. It should mark the end of a life well lived. A life deeply engaging. A time well established of humble beginnings and equally humbling endings. It should speak of uncomfortable truths and reconciled misconceptions. It is but in death one is set free of those wonderings and considerations.  It is in death decisions are no longer pertinent, no longer valid, and hold no weight. Even those left behind are those aspects of life worthy if simply for lack of focus… lack of wanting.

I bid you solace for your journey. May it make you courageous and endearing and inspiring and hold you from drowning in despair.

And In All Things I Leave You Love




See that
That right there
Everyday that motivates me
That encourages me
To be grateful
To feel full
To live a life more pleasing to Him
This proof of life
This glimpse of grace
This simple reminder
That I’ve been given another opportunity
To share joy
To speak life
To encourage
To walk in faith unseen
And exhibit faith unmatched
This right here
Speaks to my heart
A simple glorious reminder
God IS
May peace be with you
Kakiva Alexander


See Far

Take a moment to look ahead with me but for a few moments. It’ll require but a handful of those 18,400 seconds afforded to us everyday.

So we’re walking down a path right. On our way. We get real good at navigating the road, the weather, the instances of happenstance and such. We get so well at doing what we’ve been doing we reside this is what’s meant for us. We settle into such a grove we believe this is how we flow.

Allow me to assure you every course you embark on is not part of your destination. It’s the method you’ve become accustom to using, but no longer feels natural. There are still moments of discontent. Free yourself. Allow yourself. Bet on you.

There’s nothing more powering then being uncomfortable with your true self as you elevate to the next level – vibrate higher. Look at it differently. Change your view. Adjust your position. Own your truth. Don’t keep looking back.

And in all things I Leave You Love